After that we went to the Grand Cathay for our dinner! =] We queued for like close to 40mins!! =s lol.. But finally we managed to get a good dinner and good service.. =]
Monday, 29 December 2008
PSB Class Outing - Dinner at Astons
After that we went to the Grand Cathay for our dinner! =] We queued for like close to 40mins!! =s lol.. But finally we managed to get a good dinner and good service.. =]
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Friday, 26 December 2008
GF's 19th Bdae! =]
After that we went to HarbourFront to shop for her shoes and walked around.. When finally its dinner time, we went to Lerk Thai at Civic Plaza.. The food was nice, though we preferred the earlier Thai Noodles House's foods.. =p lol..
Afterall, felt very guilty this year, like didnt really plan her bdae well.. Didnt even gt her a bdae cake! =x So sorry baby! But dont worry! U shall hav a good start for ur 19th! =]
Lurve ya! *hugz hugz* =]
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Thursday, 25 December 2008
X'mas 2008
And I have started my "yong tao fu" diet.. =p lol.. Had my yong tao fu brunch at Giant de foodcourt! Then we saw different types of ricecookers and pans.. Amazed! =p lol..
Then we went to Court and Ikea, where we saw different types of showrooms.. And I just realised that me and my gf have different preferences.. She liked her bed to be high from the ground, while I liked my bed to be close to the ground! And we were kinda arguing which type of bed we should buy next time.. =p lol.. Oh yah, we even arguing abt the pillow as well!! =p lol..
Its kinda fun now for us to argue how our house to be next time.. But I guess next time when we really get married and buying house.. We can really argue alot.. =p lol.. Now we having dry-run! =p lol..
In between, we went to eat at Ikea's food court! I ate the butter rice with a really big grilled drumstick! =p lol.. and my gf having kid's meal swedish meatballs! =p lol.. After that we went back to Causeway Point to hav our dinner, and yeap, you got it right, we having yong tao fu! =p lol.. And its like the 1st time i having meal without anything fried, other than the egg! Kinda my healthiest meal! =p lol..
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Wednesday, 17 December 2008
TPI - Reflections
Back from TPI.. =]
Anyway, first of all, I need to clarify this - TPI means Tanjung Pinang, a city on Bintan Island (yes, that Bintan Island super near Singapore that people go for spa or whatever.. =p lol..), not Taipei like what one of my friend Yuen Ting said. =x lol..
Day 1 - Sunday
Reached there at about 5pm local time, waited for a long time before my mum cooked the dinner.. =x lol.. It was a simple meal.. Let see.. Sambal prawn, meatball soups, steamed fish and sotong balls. Surprisingly there was no vegetable.. =p lol.. Actually, when I said it was a simple meal, not that simple also, because I could see that my mum was busy here and there.. =x But people, I got help her cook de okay?? Dont say I unfilial okay? =p lol..
It has been quite a long time since I had dinner with my parents. The feeling was great! =] All right Sharon, I admit I envy you for mum's cooking everyday okay?? =p lol..
Day 2 - Monday
When to the Indonesia's ICA to make my passport. When I reached there, I noticed the road outside the building was not properly done. It was in quite a bad condition actually, but surprisingly, there was an okay tennis court within the compound. I was like, "Got money to make tennis court, no money to maintain a proper road within the compound. =s Haiz.." Next, when into the office, I realised that people could smoke inside because it was not air-conditioned. So smokers and non-smokers were all sitting together.. I was thinking why not they at least asked those smokers to sit at one side and non-smokers to sit at the other side.. =x Then I went to take the passport photos, I realised that they took my fingerprints as well.. All 10 fingerprints were taken. This was one of the things that I was happy about - more high-tech machines were used, hopefully they could set up a database so that it could be used as a database to fight crime as well.. =]
The whole process took less than an hour (when I tried to apply for my passport at Indonesian Embassy, I waited for 2hrs =x). After that I went online for a while then oink until dinner time. =x Went out for dinner, somewhere near my house. Kangkong with some nice sauce, sambal prawn, fried sotong and sambal lebang fish! All nice nice! =] Oh yah, and lots of rice! =p lol.. I ate about 5 plates of rice?? =x lol.. and we paid only Rp. 120,000 or $16 only. =D
After that, we went home, just in time to watch <小娘惹>. Watched one episode liao, suddenly all lights were off. The electricity was cut off, as per normal.. =s After so long I still didnt understand why the authority was not able to generate enough electricity to meet the local demand. Haiz..
But the worse thing came after this. I saw a power generator in our shop this afternoon, then I was so happy that finally my parents bought a generator, so that we all could still have power supply even if the power supply was cut off.. But you know what, my clever dad only installed the cable such that only my shop at lower floors could use the generator, but not the living area at the upper floors, meaning even if we got the generator, we could not use it to watch tv and air-con and so on, then I was like -.-""" Clever loh.. =s And hor, other shops used generators le! Only my house dark dark de loh! Siao liao.. =s
In the end I went to sit beside my room's window, and noticed an uncle sweeping the floor. And I saw that uncle was sweeping the floor from 9pm all the way to 2am. When I moved my sight up, I saw an internet cafe that was filled with lots of youngsters. Then I was thinking, "How much wages that the uncle would earn? And what a contrast it was - a middle-aged uncle was sweeping the floor until 2am and a group of youngsters which was affluent enough to spend money without really worrying about money". In Singapore we still have Work Development Agency (WDA) to subsidize people for learning new skills to find new jobs, but such things were non-existent in Indonesia. =( Income disparity remains large I guess...
When the power supply was restored at about 10.30pm (2.5hrs without power supply, my mum said I was lucky, because normally it would last for 4-5hrs), I turned on the TV and saw Survivor - Gabon. I didnt know the finale was on Monday night, so i watched until Matty was voted out. Thought I didnt really like that Bob, but I must admit that he was worthy enough to win the tie-breaker match, for him to practice how to start the fire in that afternoon. Then I went to sleep, but I could not, so after some struggling, I went back and watched TV again, and the Survivor was still on. So I watched all the way till 1am local time (2am SG time) =x
Day 3 - Tuesday
Woke up and helped my parents looked after the shop for a while. While talking to other people was not really a problem, but because I had no idea about the price and size, so conversations were quite awkward. =x lol..
Soon, my mum told me that my passport was ready. I was quite surprised, it took less than 2 days for my new passport when it took close to 5 days to make the passport in Singapore. Later i learnt from my dad that my passport application was processed on a fast-track, because the application was submitted through a "大人物", thats why my passport took less than 2 days jiu done liao.
I was thinking though the Chinese formed a large, powerful group in my place and controlled the local economy, it was still a minority group within the country. So as a minority, the Chinese community was rather unified to protect their interests, which somehow has grown into a community which has a wide network that might allow it to sometimes work outside the official rules (which i was quite certain that it was why my passport was done so quickly). Of course, this also happens to certain affluent Indonesian as well.
But as it was a minority group, which fortunately (and also unfortunately) controlled significant economic interests in the country, to work outside the rules could be easily accused by the local Indonesians for being cocky because it was rich. This negative sentiment could be easily used and stirred up by some other Indonesians for their own economic or even political interests since the locals were generally less-educated and earned low incomes.
The government, at the same time, while I was not saying that they were really incompetent, has to take into account the demand of local Indonesians, and implemented some policies that while in name applicable to all Indonesians, but in practical only affected the Chinese community. For example, the new ferry tax would be increase to $70, while the ferry ticket itself was only $40. While its true that this rule was applicable to all, but as most of the passengers were Chinese, this rule effectively "punished" the Chinese community.
But sadly, such policies would only make the Chinese community distrust the local government even more, which in return would strengthen their community and I believed that this would make the Chinese community more vulnerable to such negative sentiments from local community and this vicious cycle would just go on and on and the conflict between the two groups would just getting more and more serious.
If only more funds are available for local education so that higher human capital can be achieved and both groups are willing to work together hand in hand, i believe the country will be prosperous in no time.
After that we went for dinner outside. Foodcourt setting - minus the air-con, light and cleanness, you know what I mean. =x All motorbikes were passing around the narrow road, I was thinking if you could travel from one end to the other, surely you would not have any problem on other main roads. =x lol..
Along the stalls, i saw lots of wild cats moving here and there to find leftovers, trying to cross the road that was full of bikes, looking for leftovers. They were really struggling hard to survive.
Finally we got a place to have our dinner. I had one plate of char kuay tiao, one place of rice with fried rice and one place of prawn cakes. =x Then I saw this young lady who was helping in her dad's stall. She was cooking a pot of soup, then still need to look after the fire, serve customers, wash dishes and when she was free, she sat down and writing things in a serious manner (I guessed she was doing some accounts or homework??). *respect respect*
After we done with the dinner, i noticed along the way there were youngsters helping out in stalls too. Not too sure whether they all attending school in the morning, but if they were, I really respected them, struggling between school work in the morning and still need to help out in the stalls at night. At the same time I really feel guilty, just spending money like water, and never really study hard when I have the opportunities to receive education in such a comfortable way.
Slacking is such a luxury to them.
Went to bed on 9pm, but was rolling on bed till 1am, thinking about this. =x
Anyway, throughout my days there, I was bombarded by the fighter jets - mosquitoes. Now I have plenty of mosquito bites on my hands and legs. =s
Last but not least, I missed my gf. Glad i finally back to Singapore to see her again. *lurves* =]
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Sunday, 14 December 2008
YOz! I will be away for another week back to Indonesia to make my new passport.. =p lol... Cya soon!! =]
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Saturday, 13 December 2008
BookFest '08
When to BookFest with Sophie, Sharon and Sai Gin pang seh us! =x Bought lots of Cheena books!! =] All free!! =p lol.. Thankz to those who contributed their popular stickers to me! =p lol..
Books that i bought!! =]
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Monday, 8 December 2008
Past - Present - Future
I was watching a TV series <大国崛起> last Sunday.. Its the 2nd time i watch this series and still having lots of feeling watching it.. =p lol..
Watch the Video below..
I dont know any German, so i guess its not sth for me to say.. =p lol.. But judging for the relationship between Germany and other EU nations, i guess the former has been pretty successful in accepting its past and continue to move forward. And the Germany and France, which were once bitter enemies of each other, are now working hand in hand. It was said in the tv series that what happened during the Nazi period was included into the history texbooks, so that the later generations would be able to understand this painful experience and strive to prevent anything like that to happen ever again.
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Friday, 28 November 2008
Currently away.. Preparing exam.. =x Be back on Fri, 5th of Dec! =]
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Saturday, 22 November 2008
That Light at the Tunnel's End
"We've no doubt there's light at the end of the tunnel. But what we're more concerned about is that when we reach the light at the end of the tunnel, are we going to emerge from this tunnel more united or more disunited? I think that really is the key question. If we survive this tunnel by cutting jobs to save costs, I think, yes, we'll come out but a lot more disunited. But if we work together, save costs, cut costs to save jobs, then I think we'd have succeeded - not just surviving the tunnel but coming out more united."
"While we see light at the end of the tunnel, it is more important to figure out what we should do while we're still in the tunnel. How we emerge will depend on what we do while we're in the tunnel. Therefore, its important for us to prepare ourselves, upgrade our workers... When the economy recovers, it may be a new economy...the industries that are growing may be different, the jobs that are in demand may be different. So it's important...to give (workers) skills relevant to the new growing industries, so that when the economy eventually recovers, they will be ready."
Reference: The Straits Times Saturday, November 22 2008 Page A22.
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Saturday, 15 November 2008
I was "impressed"
Oh, plz refer to my previous blog entry "i was impressed" b4 u read this entry.. =x lol..





A lot of explanations on why the above happened, some said its a case of bullying? some said its juz a prank? or juz like the official statement from the sch principal that it was juz a celebration, blah blah.. I do not noe wad really happened in between, so i am definitely not in a position to comment whether its really a case of bullying or not, neither do I gonna to associate this event with the sch, bcoz i do believe that wad happened above is juz an isolated case that does not represent the whole population of ACJC students becoz my ACJC friends do behave really well and doin well in their respective fields.
Wad i am more concerned is on the part on some students do think that wad happened above are "normal" ways to celebrate bdae.. I was like o.O .. and my friends said this is not the worst.. O.O This is the normal way our younger peers celebrated their birthdays??
I am really worried to see that some students do think that this is "normal" and i am more worried that few years down the road, this will become a norm (or has it?? =s) for bdae celebration. I am really worried for my children nxt time.. I am serious.. =x How would you and ur parents feel if ur younger siblings have their bdae celebrated by their friends in this manner?? Worse, wad if the person was traumatized by the experience and committed suicide?? (we nv noe? =x), then who would be held reponsible??
If our society thinks that this way of celebrating bdae is okie, then i got nth more to say. but i am now assuming that our society is not "ready" for this kind of celebration, then i will say that this kind way of celeration is certainly getting abit out of hand.. and i really afraid that it will send a wrong msg to other youths that is sth normal that they can do it as and when they like..
I am seriously disturbed.. =x
PS: judging from the way the media reported the event, i am assuming that the media does not seem to treat this peice of news too positively, and assuming that the official statement given by the sch is true that the whole process was purely a bdae celebration, then i will say that this event will be a classic textbook example on how a media is able to tweak the truth and affect public opinion. =x lol..
Reference: Photos above were taken from STOMP.
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Innovians Ignite!! =]
Special thankz to Jillene, Lehana, Kai Yuan, Qian Ling, Freddie, Rebecca, Shu Ying, Hui Yin, Jocelyn, Vennesa and Seok Hui for ur cards! Deeply appreciated!! =] =] lol..
So juniors, better make sure that u all do well for your exam!!! Jia you!! =]
Actually, this entry abit overdue.. Coz some juniors have finished their exam.. =p lol.. But nvm, this entry is to express my gratitude to the 11 persons up there and the rest! =D
Oh yah oh yah, 4gt to mention, special thankz to Mr Leow, my sch OM for allowing me to put those cards.. Coz i juz out of sudd popped up into the general office to look for him! =p lol.. Nonetheless, thankz for his help!! =]
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Wednesday, 12 November 2008
Goo Lucks!! =]
Good Luckz!!!
Jia you!! You can do it!!!
*patz patz* =]
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Holding Hands
Oh friends, as much as i wish i could write it out myself, but the entry below is written by my friend, Yuan Ru. So the credit goes to her! =] I find it interesting so i share it with u all.. =]
When you were 4 or 5, the only people whom you held hands with were probably your parents. They would hold your little hand tightly in theirs when you cross the road, giving you the sense of security.
When you reach kindergarten, you hated holding hands with the boy who queued up next to you even though the teacher insisted that you must do it and keep the other finger of your free hand to your mouth. You try all sorts of ways to get minimal contact with the boy - by holding only his pinky with yours or by holding a hanky between the two of you for extreme cases.
When you enter primary school, you start to think boys are stupid and you still resent holding their hands. However, if you fancy the boy next to you, you will willingly hold his hand without resistance or complaints and hope that the walk to music room will take forever. This is when you discover the joy of holding hands with someone you like.
When you are a secondary school student, rumours start flying and they fly in all sorts of directions whether you like it or not. Puppy love blossoms, usually kept low-key; and if you are seen holding hands with an opposite sex in school on monday, the entire school will be informed by tuesday. If couples hold hands in school, they are asking for trouble in the form of detention. At this age, you think holding hands with your loved one is the sweetest thing to do. Ever.
When you become a jc student, things change. You are not shy to hold hands in public anymore. In fact, it makes you feel like an adult. An adult who is very much in love. Teachers can’t be bothered if you hold hands in school. You can even hold hands in lectures under your jacket.
When you are 18, you want to make sure that the hands that you are holding gives you the same sense of security your parents gave you when you were 4. You want to make sure that the hands are those that you want to hold on to for the rest of your life. You want to believe that your hands are moulded in such a way that it fits perfectly in your lover’s hands. You hope that this pair of hands will never leave you.
When you hit 20, you realise you start to hold hands much much much lesser than before. People fail to recognize its importance anymore.
I think hand holding is essential to a relationship. Theres nothing to be shy about holding hands anymore. Its the simplest way of showing that you care & you are there - physically and emotionally. As we grow up, our attitude towards hand holding starts to slacken. I hate that.
I love holding hands with the one I love. Because “Can I hold your hand?” was the question etched in my mind. It was the first hint we gave to each other, isn’t it?
So, will you please just hold my hand a little more - wherever & whenever?
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